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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

 No. 23-1452
 Filed July 3, 2024

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF CHELSEY JAON NUNEZ
AND ELIAS NUNEZ, JR.

Upon the Petition of
CHELSEY JAON NUNEZ,
 Petitioner-Appellee/Cross-Appellant,

And Concerning
ELIAS NUNEZ, JR.,
 Respondent-Appellant/Cross-Appellee.
________________________________________________________________

 Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Warren County, Thomas P. Murphy,

Judge.

 Petitioner and respondent each appeal from the decree dissolving their

marriage. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED ON APPEAL, AFFIRMED ON CROSS-

APPEAL, AND REMANDED.

 Andrew B. Howie of Shindler, Anderson, Goplerud & Weese, P.C., West

Des Moines, for appellant.

 Elizabeth Kellner-Nelson of Kellner-Nelson Law Firm, P.C., West Des

Moines, for appellee.

 Considered by Schumacher, P.J., and Ahlers and Langholz, JJ.
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LANGHOLZ, Judge.

 Chelsey and Elias Nunez met while working in the Polk County Courthouse.

They married in September 2019. But two and a half years later they were back

in another courthouse—Chelsey petitioned for divorce in April 2022. Both parties

appeal the dissolution decree. They each challenge the property division on one

or more grounds. And Elias also challenges his visitation with their two young

children and the court's refusal to hold Chelsey in contempt.

 First, we affirm the district court's roughly sixty–forty division of their

Indianola acreage's proceeds on both the appeal and cross-appeal. Each party's

efforts to claim all or nearly all of the proceeds miss the mark—the district court

fairly balanced each party's contributions, the short length of the marriage, and

both parties' post-petition misdeeds. Second, the decree appropriately permitted

the parties to file separate tax returns for 2022—successful collaboration seems

unlikely—and the court equitably allocated credits and deductions.

 Third, we agree with Elias that the decree went too far in awarding Chelsey

survivorship rights in Elias's IPERS pension, as the Benson formula protects her

future interests and the short length of the marriage tips the balance of equities

against a right of survivorship. Fourth, the visitation schedule is in the children's

best interest because they are served by its consistency and it gives them

meaningful parenting time with Elias. Fifth, we see no gross abuse of discretion in

the district court's refusal to hold Chelsey in contempt, particularly because her

failure to make vehicle payments was considered when apportioning the Indianola

acreage proceeds. We thus affirm the decree as modified to remove the pension

right of survivorship and award Chelsey $3000 in appellate attorney fees.
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 I. Factual Background and Proceedings

 Chelsey and Elias met through work. Chelsey was a judicial assistant at

the Polk County Courthouse. Elias was a juvenile court officer also working there.

They started dating in 2012. And after a period of separation between early 2017

and early 2018, they married in September 2019. They share two young

children—a five-year-old daughter and a nearly three-year-old son.

 This case involves three real estate properties. First, while they were

dating, Chelsey and Elias built a home in West Des Moines, which the parties refer

to as "the Beaverbrook home." Though Elias paid the down payment and held the

mortgage, Chelsey participated in the building process. After construction was

finished in July 2015, Chelsey lived in the home with Elias and contributed toward

the mortgage each month. This continued until their early 2017 separation. When

they reunited in early 2018, Chelsey again moved back into the Beaverbrook home

and resumed contributing toward its mortgage. Two years into their marriage, the

couple sold the home.

 Chelsey and Elias used part of the Beaverbrook home proceeds to buy a

new property: an acreage in Indianola. The Indianola acreage was a fixer upper.

And Elias performed much of the remodeling work himself, though he used funds

from the sale of the Beaverbrook home to pay for materials and other labor. After

separating, Chelsey and Elias sold the Indianola acreage, netting $128,564.69.

Those funds were set aside in a trust account.

 The final piece of real estate is a rental-income property in Des Moines,

referred to as "the Crown Lane house." Elias bought the Crown Lane house in

2005, long before his relationship with Chelsey. During their marriage, Elias
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leased the house to a tenant. Chelsey testified to sometimes assisting with rental

functions, but it is undisputed she did not financially contribute toward this property.

 Also at issue are six vehicles and motorcycles. Going into the marriage,

Elias owned a Toyota Tundra and two motorcycles. He gifted Chelsey a Toyota

Highlander in 2018. And during the marriage, Elias bought and traded several

vehicles and motorcycles.

 In April 2022, after roughly two-and-a-half years of marriage, Chelsey

petitioned to dissolve the marriage. The court issued a temporary-matters order

to resolve certain issues while the dissolution proceedings were pending. Relevant

here, Chelsey was responsible for the Toyota Highlander and ordered to pay the

vehicle's loan and insurance payments. After she failed to do so, Elias sought to

hold her in contempt. Chelsey responded by seeking to hold Elias in contempt for

his alleged failures to pay a satellite television bill and child support.

 The parties reached agreement on some issues before trial. They both

recommended joint legal custody of their two children. And they agreed that the

children should be placed in Chelsey's physical care, with Elias having visitation.

But the terms of the visitation schedule remained disputed. So was the property

division and the parties' dueling contempt actions.

 During the two-day trial, Chelsey and Elias often provided conflicting

testimony. Indeed, the district court found "[b]oth parties lacked credibility." After

weighing the evidence, the court issued a dissolution decree. Relevant here, the

decree established joint legal custody, placed the children in Chelsey's physical

care, and provided Elias with visitation. Elias's visitation schedule was set for

every other weekend—Friday evening through Sunday evening—and every other
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Thursday evening. On weeks where Elias did not have the children the coming

weekend, the Thursday visit would be an overnight.

 As for dividing property, Elias received his Crown Lane home and all

vehicles except the Toyota Highlander, which went to Chelsey. The court split the

Indianola acreage's proceeds roughly sixty–forty, with Elias receiving $75,282.69

and Chelsey receiving $53,282. The court explained Chelsey's share was

diminished by her failure to make the Toyota Highlander payments as required by

the temporary-matters order and Elias's expected capital gains taxes. The court

also divided Elias's IPERS benefits "per the Benson formula," and further required

Chelsey "be the contingent annuitant under option 4 or 6 in the amount of 50%

joint and survivor death benefit." And it permitted Chelsey and Elias to file their

2022 income taxes separately, with Chelsey claiming child tax credits for both

children and all daycare expenses and Elias claiming mortgage interest and other

real-estate deductions or credits. Finally, the court refused to hold either Chelsey

or Elias in contempt.

 Elias now appeals, challenging three aspects of the property division—the

Indianola acreage's proceeds, the 2022 taxes, and the survivorship rights in his

IPERS pension—his visitation schedule, and the court's refusal to hold Chelsey in

contempt. Chelsey also cross-appealed the division of the Indianola acreage's

proceeds and seeks appellate attorney fees.

 II. Property Division

 We review a district court's division of property in a dissolution decree de

novo. See In re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 690 (Iowa 2007). Yet we

are mindful of the district court's preferred fact-finding position and will only disturb
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a decree when it fails to do equity. See id. at 703–04. In a dissolution decree,

"[t]he court shall divide all property, except inherited property or gifts received or

expected by one party, equitably between the parties." Iowa Code § 598.21(5)

(2022). What is equitable "depends upon the circumstances of each case" based

on consideration of the factors in Iowa Code section 598.21(5). Hansen, 733

N.W.2d at 702. "An equitable division is not necessarily an equal division." Id.

 Indianola Acreage Proceeds. Elias and Chelsey both challenge the district

court's roughly sixty–forty split of the $128,565.69 Indianola acreage proceeds.

Instead, they each propose an allocation that awards themselves all or nearly all

of the proceeds. But neither proposal is equitable.

 Elias argues that because he and Chelsey were only married for a short

time, his premarital assets should have been presumptively excluded from the

couple's divisible property. In turn, to properly credit his premarital assets and

contributions, he argues Chelsey's share should be limited to roughly $28,000—

the marital equity of the Crown Lane and Beaverbrook homes—and he should

receive the remaining roughly $100,000. Yet Elias's proposal is both incorrect on

the law and inequitable under these facts.

 First, Iowa equitably divides all property held by the parties—there is no

statutory carveout for premarital property like there is for inheritances and gifts.

See Iowa Code § 598.21(1). True, "[i]n marriages of short duration, an equitable

distribution of property does not require an equal distribution of property." In re

Marriage of Naylor, No. 17-0770, 2018 WL 5850223, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App.

Nov. 7, 2018). And the "length of the marriage" and "property brought to the

marriage by each party" are factors for the court to weigh. Iowa Code
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§ 598.21(5)(a), (b). But so too do we consider "the contribution of each party to

the marriage, giving appropriate economic value to each party's contribution in

homemaking and child care services," among many other factors. Iowa Code

§ 598.21(5)(c).

 Elias seemingly argues that because he bought the Beaverbrook home, and

its proceeds were used to buy and remodel the Indianola acreage, he is

presumptively entitled to all of the Indianola acreage's proceeds too. But like the

district court, we find Elias's proposal minimizes Chelsey's contributions. Chelsey

was actively involved in the Beaverbrook home—selecting the builder, choosing

materials, and contributing monthly toward its mortgage. During their marriage,

Chelsey and Elias together sold the Beaverbrook home and bought the Indianola

acreage. All the while, Chelsey was the sole childcare provider and performed

significant household work. So we find the Indianola acreage was a joint effort and

thus decline to reduce the value of Chelsey's contributions to the slight

appreciation of two pieces of real estate.1

 At the same time, Chelsey's proposal is also flawed. Chelsey argues she

should receive the entire sum—all $128,564.69—because Elias got the Crown

Lane house and several vehicles and he improperly dissipated funds during the

dissolution proceedings. Starting with the Crown Lane house and vehicles,

Chelsey argued during trial that awarding Elias these assets resulted in him

"walking away with quite a bit more," so she should receive all of the proceeds to

1 Elias also argues that Chelsey's share should be reduced to account for Elias's

assistance in paying off Chelsey's premarital debt. But even if such a credit were
equitable, Elias offers no evidence showing the debt's amount or when it was paid.
Absent this evidence, we see no basis to reduce Chelsey's share.
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achieve parity. But we find the short duration of this marriage undermines

Chelsey's strictly equal approach. See In re Marriage of Hansen, 886

N.W.2d 868, 873 (Iowa Ct. App. 2016); Naylor, 2018 WL 5850223, at *3

(explaining "in marriages of short duration, our courts are inclined to restore the

parties to the status quo ante or are inclined to at least trend toward the status quo

ante" and collecting cases).

 Elias acquired the Crown Lane house long before his relationship with

Chelsey, and Chelsey did not materially contribute to the rental property during

their short marriage. He likewise amassed his vehicle and motorcycle collection

largely without Chelsey's assistance. See Naylor, 2018 WL 5850223, at *4

(discussing uneven property distributions when "there was a significant disparity

of assets brought into the marriage"); In re Marriage of Miller, 452 N.W.2d 622, 624

(Iowa Ct. App. 1989) (explaining one purpose behind considering what property

each spouse brought to the marriage is to "prevent a spouse from being given an

interest in property for which he or she made no contribution to acquiring"). So

equity does not demand equalization of these assets.

 Elias's dissipation is a tougher problem. When they separated, Elias and

Chelsey had roughly $93,000 in a checking account—much of it still left from the

sale of the original Beaverbrook home. Shortly after Chelsey petitioned to dissolve

the marriage, the parties were restrained from disposing personal or joint property

absent mutual agreement or leave of court. Despite this order, Elias spent roughly

$34,000 from the checking account in October 2022.

 Elias testified the funds went toward his credit card, and that he carried the

substantial balance because of the financial strains of the dissolution—hiring
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lawyers, completing the Indianola acreage projects so it could be sold, and paying

two mortgages. The district court did not believe Elias's testimony that some

money went to Indianola acreage-related projects, but it did not make any similar

credibility findings about Elias using the credit card to pay attorney fees, the two

mortgages, or other expenses that were not barred by the asset-protection order.

So it is unclear how much of the sum was improperly spent.

 Viewing the record as a whole, the court's allocation achieves equity.

Elias's significant financial contribution to acquiring the property and the marriage's

short duration favor Elias receiving a greater share of the proceeds. But his asset

dissipation and Chelsey's childrearing and household contributions counsel

against him receiving a substantially greater share. Indeed, the court explained

Chelsey would have received closer to fifty percent of the proceeds had she not

flouted the temporary-matters order and failed to pay roughly $5000 in Toyota

Highlander payments. In the end, given Elias and Chelsey's contributions, we

affirm the district court's allocation of the Indianola acreage proceeds.

 2022 Taxes. Elias next disputes the decree's provision permitting the

parties to file their 2022 taxes separately and allowing Chelsey to claim both

children as dependents for that year.2 But we find this decision both practical and

equitable. Practically, the court had little faith that Elias and Chelsey could

cooperatively file their taxes, so filing separately would ensure timely completion.

And equitably, though the court authorized Chelsey to claim both children as

dependents, it did so in exchange for Chelsey not seeking reimbursement from

2 For the 2023 and later tax years, Elias and Chelsey will each claim one child as

a dependent.
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Elias for 2022 daycare expenses and for the two months where Elias did not pay

child support. And Elias received all mortgage or other real-estate deductions.

Because the decree fairly distributed tax burdens and benefits, we affirm.

 Pension Survivorship Rights. Elias's final property-division challenge

relates to his IPERS pension. Elias does not challenge that Chelsey is entitled to

her share of the marital portion of his retirement benefits under the Benson formula

while he is living or as a beneficiary if he dies before retiring.3 But he asserts the

decree went too far in granting Chelsey survivorship rights by requiring he

designate her as the contingent annuitant to receive fifty percent of his benefits for

her entire life if he dies after retiring and starting to receive benefits. In support,

Elias points to the short duration of the marriage and his intent to remarry and one

day designate a new spouse as his surviving spouse. Chelsey counters that

without being the contingent annuitant, there is no guarantee she will receive the

full share of her benefits.4

3 In In re Marriage of Benson, our supreme court adopted a formula for determining

a spouse's "share of any payout of a matured benefit from" the other spouse's
"pension plan." In re Marriage of Benson, 545 N.W.2d 252, 255–57 (Iowa 1996).
4 Despite the short duration of the marriage—and thus the presumably small

marital portion of the pension—neither party seeks the alternative relief of valuing
the "IPERS account at the refund value as of the time of trial and order[ing] a
property equalization payment from" him to Chelsey "in lieu of dividing the IPERS
account via a QDRO." In re Marriage of Boland-Chambers, No. 14-0920, 2015
WL 1849501, at *4 (Iowa Ct. App. Apr. 22, 2015) (finding an equalization payment
more equitable given that "IPERS retirement options and the circumstances of the
parties could be drastically different by the time the parties retire"). Because
neither Chelsey nor Elias seeks this alternative arrangement, we do not consider
it. See In re Marriage of Duggan, 659 N.W.2d 556, 560 n.2 (Iowa 2003) (noting
the alternative possibility of an equalization payment and declining to pursue it
because "neither party requests this method of distribution").
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 Deciding whether to designate a former spouse as a pension's surviving

spouse in a property division turns "on the facts of each case and whether the

allowance of survivorship rights effectuates an equitable distribution of the parties'

assets." In re Marriage of Duggan, 659 N.W.2d 556, 560 (Iowa 2003). We

considered the interplay between IPERS, the Benson formula, and survivorship

rights in In re Marriage of Dow, No. 17-0534, 2018 WL 1858299, at *5–7 (Iowa Ct.

App. Apr. 18, 2018). There, we clarified that while awarding survivorship rights

could be equitable in the right circumstances, we could not say that such awards

were "normal" or "typical." Id. at *7 (citation omitted). And we were reluctant to

embrace a default rule that survivorship rights are necessary to protect a former

spouse's future interests, as the Benson "percentage formula properly allocates

risk between the parties." Id. (cleaned up). Ultimately, because of "the length of

[the parties'] marriage," the spouse was entitled to be a beneficiary of any

preretirement death benefits, but not entitled to be a contingent annuitant "because

[she] was sufficiently protected by the other pension provisions." Id.; see also In

re Marriage of Smith, No. 16-0597, 2017 WL 362000, at *6 n.11 (Iowa Ct. App.

Jan. 25, 2017) (awarding spouse the marital share of a pension using the Benson

formula but declining to designate her as the surviving spouse because Benson

adequately protected her interests).

 So too here. This marriage lasted roughly two-and-a-half years, and

Chelsey was thirty-one-years-old at the time of trial. When we have granted

survivorship rights, we have done so when the marriage spanned most of the

pensioner's career. See In re Marriage of Miller, No. 19-0969, 2021 WL 603237,

at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. Jan. 21, 2021) (collecting cases extending survivorship rights
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in long marriages and holding "we are not persuaded that the length of the

marriage warranted an award of survivor benefits"); aff'd in relevant part,

966 N.W.2d 630, 635 (Iowa 2021). And even in long marriages, we have found it

equitable to forgo a contingent annuity in favor of the parties receiving a higher

monthly payment during the pensioner's lifetime. See In re Marriage of Sullins,

No. 14-1153, 2015 WL 4935620, at *4 (Iowa Ct. App. Aug. 19, 2015).

 Consistent with this approach—and without meaningful advocacy from

Chelsey on why the circumstances here warrant any deviation—we grant Elias's

request to modify the decree to remove the requirement that he designate Chelsey

as his contingent annuitant to receive IPERS joint survivor death benefits.

Because this is the only change Elias seeks on appeal, the remaining IPERS

portions of the decree—including the requirements to designate Chelsey as a

beneficiary for preretirement death benefits and to elect IPERS Option 4 or 6 upon

retirement—remain intact. We thus remand the case for the district court to enter

a new QDRO consistent with this opinion.

 III. Visitation

 We next consider Elias's challenge to the visitation schedule. Like the

property division, we review the district court's decision de novo. See Hansen,

733 N.W.2d at 690. And as always, we focus on what is best for the children. See

id. at 695. In that pursuit, we recognize that children are often best served by

"stability and continuity." Id. at 696. So while "liberal visitation is the benchmark,"

we review visitation schedules through the lens of the children's best interests,
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rather than the lens of "the parent seeking visitation." In re Marriage of Brainard,

523 N.W.2d 611, 615 (Iowa Ct. App. 1994).

 During trial, Elias proposed a graduated visitation schedule, which

incrementally increased his time with the children over four years. His proposed

schedule at first gave him only one overnight every fourteen days and would

gradually ramp up to six overnights by 2026. But the district court found this was

too inconsistent for the children. And we agree the children are best served by the

decree's consistent schedule.

 Elias has the children every other weekend and every Thursday, with

alternating Thursdays being an overnight visit. Elias thus receives both weekend

and midweek time, allowing him "to become involved in the [children's] day-to-day

activity as well as weekend fun." In re Marriage of Ertmann, 376 N.W.2d 918, 922

(Iowa Ct. App. 1985). We also find it significant that, under this schedule, Elias

now has more time with his children than his plan allotted. Indeed, he received in

2023 the time with his children that his own plan had deferred until 2025.

 Ultimately, Elias is a capable father who loves his children, and this

visitation schedule allows ample opportunity to bond with his children while also

preserving stability and continuity in the children's daily lives. We thus affirm the

decree's visitation schedule.

 IV. Contempt

 Elias also asks us to hold Chelsey in contempt for failing to pay the Toyota

Highlander's loan and insurance, contrary to the temporary-matters order. See

Iowa Code § 598.23 (allowing contempt actions against any person who "willfully

disobeys" a temporary order or final decree in a marriage dissolution proceeding).
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Unlike Elias's challenges to the decree, which we review de novo, the district court

has "broad discretion" over contempt matters. In re Marriage of Swan, 526

N.W.2d 320, 327 (Iowa 1995). We will only reverse in the unusual instance when

the court's discretion is "grossly abused." Id. (cleaned up). And we do not find the

court's decision to refuse contempt grossly unreasonable. Although Chelsey

indeed never made the vehicle payments, the court accounted for that failure when

apportioning her share of the Indianola acreage proceeds. So we cannot say

Chelsey went unpunished, nor can we say Elias was blameless. Because the

district court did not grossly abuse its discretion, we affirm the court's decision to

resolve Chelsey's noncompliance through means other than contempt.

 V. Appellate Attorney Fees

 Finally, Chelsey asks us to award her $4650 in appellate attorney fees.

Awarding appellate fees is discretionary, and we are guided by Chelsey and Elias's

abilities to pay and Chelsey's required defense of the decree. See In re Marriage

of Berning, 745 N.W.2d 90, 94 (Iowa 2007). Because she has largely prevailed in

Elias's appeal—but not her cross-appeal—and she has less ability to pay, we

award Chelsey $3000 in appellate attorney fees. Appellate costs shall be split

equally between the parties.

 AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED ON APPEAL, AFFIRMED ON CROSS-

APPEAL, AND REMANDED.