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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

 No. COA15-209

 Filed: 15 December 2015

Catawba County, No. 12 CVD 1337

JOHN BRYAN SETZLER, Plaintiff,

 v.

EVETTE LYNN SETZLER, Defendant.

 Appeal by plaintiff from orders entered 2 January and 9 May 2014 by Judge

Jane V. Harper in Catawba County District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals 8

September 2015.

 Wesley E. Starnes for plaintiff-appellant.

 Morrow Porter Vermitsky Fowler & Taylor, PLLC, by John F. Morrow, Sr.,
 Natalie M. Vermitsky, and John C. Vermitsky, for defendant-appellee.

 BRYANT, Judge.

 The trial court did not err in awarding attorney's fees under N.C. Gen. Stat. §

50-13.6 where the court found that defendant acted in good faith in filing her custody

action. Additionally, where the findings of fact are supported by competent evidence

and, in turn, support its conclusions of law, we affirm the trial court's order

concluding that defendant was not cohabiting as defined in N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-

16.9(b) and denying plaintiff's motion to terminate alimony.
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 Plaintiff-father and defendant-mother were married on 25 April 1992. During

their marriage, the couple had two children. The parties subsequently separated on

12 April 2012. On 11 May 2012, plaintiff filed his Complaint seeking child custody,

divorce from bed and board, equitable distribution, injunctive relief, and interim

distribution. Defendant then filed an Answer and Counterclaim seeking child

custody, child support, post separation support, permanent alimony, equitable

distribution, and attorney's fees.

 On 30 May 2013, the parties were divorced, and on 13 June 2013, a judgment

of equitable distribution and an order of permanent alimony was entered. On 3

September 2013, plaintiff filed a motion, pursuant to N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-16.9, to

terminate his alimony alleging that defendant was cohabiting with William Wallace

Respess. Defendant filed a reply to plaintiff's motion to terminate alimony on 13

September 2013. On 2 January 2014, following an evidentiary hearing, the trial court

entered an order denying plaintiff's motion to terminate alimony. Plaintiff timely

filed notice of appeal of this order.

 On 22–25 April 2014, an evidentiary hearing was held on the issue of custody

and support. At this hearing, plaintiff advocated for primary custody of the children,

as did defendant. An order of custody was entered, which awarded permanent

primary custody of the children to plaintiff and permanent secondary custody of the

children to defendant. Additionally, it was ordered that the children would live

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primarily with their father and that plaintiff father would have final decision-making

authority regarding the children.

 Defendant also made a claim for attorney's fees, which plaintiff opposed. The

trial court entered an order granting defendant's request for attorney's fees. On 14

April 2014, plaintiff filed a Motion for Non-Disbursement which was denied on 27

May 2014. On 30 June 2014, plaintiff entered an amended notice of appeal from the

2 January 2014 Order on Alimony and the 27 May 2014 orders as to child custody,

attorney's fees, and Plaintiff's Motion for Non-Disbursement.

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 On appeal, plaintiff argues that the trial court erred when it concluded that (I)

defendant was acting in good faith in bringing her child custody action; and (II)

defendant was not engaging in cohabitation.

 I

 Plaintiff first argues that the trial court erred in concluding that defendant

was acting in good faith in bringing her child custody action, and therefore, the trial

court had no statutory authority to award attorney's fees to defendant. We disagree.

 North Carolina General Statutes, section 50-13.6 provides the following:

 [i]n an action or proceeding for the custody or support, or
 both, of a minor child, including a motion in the cause for
 the modification or revocation of an existing order for
 custody or support, or both, the court may in its discretion
 order payment of reasonable attorney's fees to an
 interested party acting in good faith who has insufficient

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 means to defray the expense of the suit.

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.6 (2013) (emphasis added). Therefore, the trial court is

required to make two findings of fact in order to award attorney's fees under N.C.G.S.

§ 50-13.6: "that the party to whom attorney's fees were awarded was (1) acting in

good faith and (2) has insufficient means to defray the expense of the suit." Burr v.

Burr, 153 N.C. App. 504, 506, 570 S.E.2d 222, 224 (2002) (citation omitted).

 The Supreme Court of North Carolina has defined good faith as "honesty of

intention, and freedom from knowledge of circumstances which ought to put [one]

upon inquiry" that a claim is frivolous. Bryson v. Sullivan, 330 N.C. 644, 662, 412

S.E.2d 327, 336 (1992) (quoting Black's Law Dictionary 693 (6th ed. 1990)). Because

the element of good faith "is seldom in issue . . . a party satisfies it by demonstrating

that he or she seeks custody in a genuine dispute with the other party." 3-13 Lee's

North Carolina Family Law § 13.92 (2014).

 Here, it is undisputed that defendant was in a genuine dispute with plaintiff—

plaintiff initiated a claim for custody and defendant brought a counterclaim for

custody. Rather than challenging the evidence, offering any case law or precedent,

or arguing that the legal conclusion of good faith was not supported by the facts found

by the trial judge, plaintiff's sole argument seems to be that a person who requests

more time with her children in her claim for custody is acting in bad faith when she

should know that she is a poor parent. Almost seven pages of plaintiff's brief are

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dedicated to factual findings regarding defendant's struggle with drug addiction. In

order to accept plaintiff's position, this Court would have to find that some parents

should simply know that, because they are unfit parents or have made mistakes in

the past, they will lose any attempts to modify custody arrangements, and therefore

any attempts to do so could not be made in good faith. To support such an outcome

would be to negate the efforts made by parents, such as defendant, to correct previous

mistakes and become better parents and would serve to bar such parents from

bringing custody actions. This position espoused by plaintiff is unsupportable and

contrary to settled law. This portion of plaintiff's argument is overruled.

 The second finding of fact the trial court must make when awarding attorneys'

fees under N.C.G.S. § 50-13.6 is that the party to whom attorneys' fees are being

awarded "has insufficient means to defray the expense of the suit." Burr, 153 N.C.

App. at 506, 570 S.E.2d at 224.

 Here, defendant's first Financial Affidavit filed 26 September 2012 reflects

defendant's total net monthly income, gross less deductions, as $1,516.67, with

anticipated fixed household expenses listed as $3,979.68. On 17 May 2013, defendant

filed an Amended Financial Affidavit, which listed her total net monthly income, after

deductions, as $820.00, with total anticipated fixed household expenses totaling

$3,669.68. The Amended Financial Affidavit also noted the following:

 On 10/12/12 . . . [d]efendant was award [sic] lump sum post
 separation support in the amount of $33,000.00, which was

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 payable on or about 12/1/12. The post separation award
 was for $5,500.00 per month for a period of six months,
 which will be exhausted at the time of this hearing on
 6/3/13.

 On 22 May 2013, defendant filed a 2nd Amended Financial Affidavit, which

again listed defendant's total net income available after deductions as $820.00, with

total anticipated household expenses listed as $3,735.68. The 2nd Amended Affidavit

also listed a "one time cost of $790.00 for brakes and rotors." The Financial Affidavits

filed by defendant also noted that (1) defendant owns no real estate individually, and

(2) defendant and plaintiff together own real estate having an approximate value of

$2,319,393.00 and an approximate mortgage debt of $2,397,000.00.

 In Lawrence v. Tise, this Court reversed and remanded a trial court order

denying an award of attorney's fees where the trial court's finding that plaintiff-

mother had the means to pay her attorney was not supported by the evidence. 107

N.C. App. 140, 153–54, 419 S.E.2d 176, 185 (1992). In Lawrence, the evidence

revealed, inter alia, that plaintiff-mother

 incurred legal fees . . . in the amount of $6741.00; that her
 monthly gross income is $215.00 and that her monthly
 expenses exceed her gross income . . . and that she owns a
 home which she purchased in 1986 for $50,000.00 which
 has a mortgage of $40,000.00, and an adjoining vacant lot
 with a tax value of $10,000.00.

Id. at 153, 419 S.E.2d at 184.

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 Here, as in Lawrence, the evidence similarly shows that defendant had

insufficient means to defray the costs of her suit. In the trial court's Attorney's Fee

Order, entered 27 May 2014, the trial court found in Finding of Fact No. 4 that

defendant had "insufficient means to defray the attendant expenses of her suit for

custody." In Finding of Fact No. 8, the trial court stated as follows: "In the tax year

2013, Plaintiff's earned income was $613,464 (about $51,122 per month) and

[d]efendant's earned income was $1,560 per month. Both parties have about the same

earned income now as they did in 2013." In Finding of Fact No. 7, the trial court

found, after reviewing three Attorney's Fees Affidavits, that, from 4 December 2013

up to April 2014, defendant had incurred some $8,419 in attorneys' fees and $1,228

in costs. The third affidavit, which covered the April trial and costs and preparation

of defendant's closing argument, showed that defendant incurred fees in the amount

of $16,075 and costs of $1,109.

 Additionally, unlike the plaintiff-mother in Lawrence, here, defendant owns no

real estate or other property individually. See Lawrence, 107 N.C. App. at 153, 419

S.E.2d at 184. The only property defendant does have an interest in she owns

together with her husband and the mortgage debt encumbering the property exceeds

the current market value of the property by approximately $77,000.00.

 Accordingly, the trial court's findings of fact support its conclusions of law,

specifically, that "[d]efendant is without sufficient funds with which to defray the

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necessary expenses attendant to her suit for custody, [and] . . . [d]efendant is entitled

to an award of attorney's fees pursuant to N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.6."

 The trial court's findings of fact that defendant was acting in good faith and

has insufficient means to defray the expense of the suit support its conclusion of law

awarding attorneys' fees to defendant. Accordingly, plaintiff's argument is overruled.

 II

 Plaintiff next argues that the trial court erred by concluding that defendant

did not engage in cohabitation. Specifically, plaintiff contends that defendant and

Respess have mutually and voluntarily assumed "those marital rights, duties, and

obligations which are usually manifested by married people." N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-

16.9(b) (1995).

 In reviewing orders entered by a trial court in non-jury proceedings, this Court

is "strictly limited to determining whether the record contains competent evidence to

support the trial court's findings of fact and whether those findings, in turn, support

the trial court's conclusions of law." Smallwood v. Smallwood, ___ N.C. App. ___, ___,

742 S.E.2d 814, 820 (2013) (internal quotation marks and citation omitted). Further,

in performing this review, this Court may not "engage in a de novo review of the

evidence and substitute its judgment for that of the trial court." Id. (citing Coble v.

Coble, 300 N.C. 708, 712–13, 268 S.E.2d 185, 189 (1980)). Neither is it for this Court

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"to determine de novo the weight and credibility to be given to evidence disclosed by

the record on appeal." Coble, 300 at 712–13, 268 S.E.2d at 189.

 Section 50-16.9(b) of the General Statutes states in pertinent part that "[i]f a

dependent spouse who is receiving postseparation support or alimony from a

supporting spouse . . . remarries or engages in cohabitation, the postseparation

support or alimony shall terminate." N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-16.9(b). The statute defines

"cohabitation" as:

 the act of two adults dwelling together continuously and
 habitually in a private heterosexual relationship, even if
 this relationship is not solemnized by marriage, or a
 private homosexual relationship. Cohabitation is
 evidenced by the voluntary mutual assumption of those
 marital rights, duties, and obligations which are usually
 manifested by married people, and which include, but are
 not necessarily dependent on, sexual relations.

Id. The North Carolina Supreme Court has formulated a two-part test for

cohabitation: "[t]o find cohabitation, there must be evidence of: (1) a ‘dwelling

together continuously and habitually' of two adults and (2) a ‘voluntary mutual

assumption of those marital rights, duties and obligations which are usually

manifested by married people.' " Bird v. Bird, 363 N.C. 774, 779–80, 688 S.E.2d 420,

423 (2010) (quoting N.C.G.S. § 50-16.9(b) (2009)).

 This two-part test must also be applied in light of the legislative policy

underlying N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-16.9(b). For the first element of the test, the statutory

text:

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 reflects several of the goals of the "live-in-lover statutes,"
 terminating alimony in relationships that probably have
 an economic impact, preventing a recipient from avoiding
 in bad faith the termination that would occur at
 remarriage, but not the goal of imposing some kind of
 sexual fidelity on the recipient as the condition of
 continued alimony. The first sentence [of the statute]
 reflects the goal of terminating alimony in a relationship
 that probably has an economic impact. "Continuous and
 habitual" connotes a relationship of some duration and
 suggests that the relationship must be exclusive and
 monogamous as well. All of these factors increase the
 likelihood that the relationship has an economic impact on
 the recipient spouse.

Craddock v. Craddock, 188 N.C. App. 806, 810, 656 S.E.2d 716, 719 (2008) (quoting

2 Suzanne Reynolds, Lee's North Carolina Family Law § 9.85, at 493–94 (5th ed.

1999)) [hereinafter Lee's Family Law].

 For the second element of the cohabitation test, the goal is "to terminate

postseparation support and alimony when the relation has an economic effect and

when someone is acting in bad faith to avoid termination." Smallwood, ___ N.C. App.

at ___, 742 S.E.2d at 818 (quoting Lee's Family Law § 9.85, at 494). This is because

"the more indicia of ‘marital rights, duties, and obligations,' the more chance that the

decision not to marry is motivated only by a desire to continue receiving alimony."

Id. at ___, 818 (quoting Lee's Family Law § 9.85, supra, at 494).

 The trial court implicitly concluded that the first element of the cohabitation

test was met, in that the trial court found that "the relationship between [d]efendant

and Mr. Respess is habitual and monogamous and has had an economic impact, to

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[d]efendant's benefit." Therefore, the core issue is whether the trial court's conclusion

that defendant and Respsess did not voluntarily and mutually assume those marital

rights, duties, and obligations which are usually manifested by married people was

supported by its factual findings.

 When determining whether a couple voluntarily assumes those marital rights,

duties, and obligations which are usually manifested by married people, the trial

court must consider the totality of the circumstances. Smallwood, ___ N.C. App. at

___, 742 S.E.2d at 819 (citation omitted). "Under the ‘totality of the circumstances

test,' a court must evaluate all the circumstances of the particular case, with no single

factor controlling." Id. (citing Fletcher v. Fletcher, 123 N.C. App. 744, 750, 474 S.E.2d

802, 806, (1996).

 In Smallwood, this Court held that the plaintiff and her paramour, Robinson,

did not engage in marital conduct when, inter alia, the following facts were found by

the trial court below: (1) Robinson maintained his own residence and did not keep

clothes or other personal items at the plaintiff's residence; (2) Robinson did not pay

any expenses for the plaintiff's residence, nor attend to any other chores at the

plaintiff's residence; and (3) Robinson and plaintiff did not refer to each other as

husband and wife. Id. at ___, 742 S.E.2d at 818–19.

 Additionally, this Court has held that when the "parties [do] not share

financial obligations, exchange gifts or purchase items for each other without being

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reimbursed for the money spent[,]" this factor can support a trial court's determination

that a couple has not assumed those marital rights, duties, and obligations which are

usually manifested by married people. Russo v. Russo, No. COA11-162, 2011 WL

6035580, *5 (N.C. Ct. App. Dec. 6, 2011) (unpublished) (emphasis added) (citations

and quotation marks omitted).

 In its Order Denying Motion to Terminate Alimony and Denying Motion for

Civil Contempt entered 2 January 2014, the trial court made the following findings

on the issue of cohabitation:

 (3) Defendant/Wife began a sexual relationship with
 William Wallace Respess sometime in March of 2013. The
 couple has been monogamous since said time. They spend
 virtually all overnights together except when Defendant's
 children are with her. They usually stay at Mr. Respess'
 residence. They have traveled together several times,
 sharing a room. They have spent time with both of their
 families, as well as numerous friends of both, and have
 entertained friends several times at Mr. Respess'
 residence. They have had family photographs made, some
 including Defendant's daughters. They are engaged to be
 married and plan on marrying in mid-May, 2014,
 immediately after Mr. Respess is divorced from is [sic]
 present wife, from whom he separated in March of 2013.

 (4) Defendant/Wife maintains her own residence, where
 Mr. Respess never spends the night. Neither party keeps
 clothes or other personal items at the home of the other.

 (5) Financially, Mr. Respess has provided funds to
 Defendant or paid bills for her directly, on numerous
 occasions. Mr. Respess has made payments so Defendant
 would not lose her town home, her internet service, or the
 furniture she was buying on time. Some of the funds he

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has provided were for everyday living expenses. The
consent judgment entered by Plaintiff and Defendant on
June 13, 2013, included a provision for Defendant to
receive a 2007 BMW vehicle which she would "immediately
trade . . . for a newer vehicle to be titled in her name."
Defendant was unable to get credit for this purchase,
despite Mr. Respess' willingness to co-sign the note, and
Mr. Respess then bought the 2008 Buick automobile she
had chosen, in his name. He also assisted her with car
payments on this car (which she drives) and has added it
to his car insurance policy.

(6) Both Defendant and Mr. Respess described all of the
above transactions as "loans." While the Court is not
convinced that their original intent was that these funds
be "loans," it is undisputed that Defendant, upon receiving
$200,000 via a Qualified Domestic Relations Order from a
retirement account of Plaintiff/Husband's (pursuant to the
consent judgment), promptly paid Mr. Respess all that they
agreed she owed him. That amount was paid on October 5,
2013, in the amount of $19,844.00; part of said funds was
attorney fees Defendant owed for Mr. Respess'
representation of Defendant in this matter.

(7) Mr. Respess has also given Defendant a diamond
engagement ring (in September, 2013), two outfits, a
blouse, and two pieces of luggage. Mr. Respess has paid all
the costs of the parties' trips together. When they eat out
together, Mr. Respess pays. When they cook in together,
he usually pays for the groceries.

(8) Mr. Respess and Defendant expect him to function as a
stepparent to Defendant's daughters, and he has already
begun assuming that role. For example, Mr. Respess
attended the school orientation for the girls in August
along with . . . Defendant. Defendant and Mr. Respess
attend Sunday School together on the Sundays when the
girls are not with Defendant.

(9) Defendant and Mr. Respess have told no one that they

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 are married. They tell everyone they are engaged. They
 have no joint banking accounts.

 ...

 (12) Here the relationship between Defendant and Mr.
 Respess is habitual and monogamous and has had an
 economic impact, to Defendant's benefit. But the Court is
 not convinced that the Defendant's motivation, in not
 marrying Mr. Respess, is to continue receiving alimony.
 First, of course, is the legal impediment of Mr. Respess'
 current marital status. But also, this couple plans to marry
 as soon as they legally can, which will result in the loss, by
 Defendant/Wife, of more than four years of the five years
 alimony for which she bargained. If Defendant wanted to
 keep the alimony coming, these marriage plans should not
 be made. Continuing to receive alimony does not appear to
 be her primary motivation, much less her only one.

 (13) The above consideration, along with the separate
 residential arrangements, offset the other facts which
 would favor allowing Plaintiff/Husband's Motion to
 Terminate Alimony.

 Here, like the couple in Smallwood, defendant and Respess each maintained

their own respective residences and Respess did not keep any clothes or personal

items at defendant's home. Additionally, like the couple in Smallwood, defendant

and Respess have not told anyone that they are married. Finally, it is worth noting

that in Russo, an unpublished opinion, this Court noted that when parties did not

share financial obligations or exchange gifts or purchase items for one another

without being reimbursed for the money spent, this was a strong indication that the

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couple did not assume "those marital rights, duties, and obligations which are usually

manifested by married people." Russo, 2011 WL 6035580 at *5.

 Here, Respess provided funds to defendant or paid bills for her on numerous

occasions, but she repaid him for this assistance. The trial court found that, while

the parties' description of these transactions as "loans" was not a convincing one,

defendant did pay Respess a sum of $19,844.00 on 5 October 2013, which was the

amount the couple agreed defendant owed Respess. Thus, the trial court's legal

conclusion that defendant and Respess did not assume those marital rights, duties,

and obligations which are usually manifested by married people was supported by

the trial court's findings of fact.

 The trial court's conclusion is also supported by the trial court's reasonable

inference that defendant's motivation in not marrying Respess was not made in bad

faith in order to keep the alimony coming. A trial judge is entitled, after considering

all the evidence, to draw "inferences as are reasonable and proper under the

circumstances, even though another different inference, equally reasonable, might

also be drawn therefrom." Hodges v. Hodges, 257 N.C. 774, 780, 127 S.E.2d 567, 571

(1962) (citation and quotation marks omitted).

 As stated previously, the primary legislative policy in making cohabitation, not

just remarriage, grounds for termination of alimony was to evaluate the economic

impact of a relationship on the dependent spouse and, consequently, avoid bad faith

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receipts of alimony. The trial court's inference finding that a desire to continue

receiving alimony was not a primary motive in not remarrying is yet another factual

finding that supports the trial court's conclusion defendant and Respess were not

cohabiting.

 Again, we reiterate that this Court does not review the trial court's order de

novo, nor can we substitute our judgment for that of the trial court. See Coble, 300

N.C. at 712–13, 268 S.E.2d at 189. Here, competent evidence in the record supports

the trial court's findings of fact and those findings of fact in turn support the

conclusions of law. Accordingly, plaintiff's argument is overruled.

 We find that the record supports the orders of the trial court concluding (I)

defendant's child custody action was brought in good faith, and she is entitled to

attorney's fees; and (II) defendant and Respess did not engage in cohabitation for

purposes of terminating plaintiff's alimony payments to defendant.

 AFFIRMED.

 Judges GEER and TYSON concur.

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